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Saint Sass

Explore the empowering world of Saint Sass, a visionary brand that redefines fashion with its bold blend of style and self-determined living. Discover how this Berlin-based startup is making a statement that encourages women to embrace their unique identities and challenge societal norms.

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How to feel good enough.

Self-love, self-confidence and self-worth:
These words and concepts all start with the word self. Remember that. You are wanting to be good enough for yourself. And what that means, is up to you. Not what it means to Susan or Karen, only you.

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Easy tips for fantastic oral sex

Cunnilingus: it has a bit of a marmite status, either you love it or you hate it. What is wonderful about cunnilingus is it gives you an opportunity to get up close and personal with your partner’s hoo-ha. So take the time, use some lube, spread the lips and explore.

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Let’s use our words, the infinite resource of mental strength, to help the women in our lives navigate this minefield of a contradictory image of a woman. For while we are torn apart in all the things we “should” be, we are also the most resilient folk I have ever experienced. And the fact that we can be all these things at once means we should see the chains of society as something we own and master as opposed to holding us back.

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How to lift your lockdown libido

Your libido is not something set apart from you. What I mean is you can’t work on your libido without first looking at many other factors. You as a person need to be in a good place in order to ignite that spark. The following is a pot-pourri of ideas you can pick-n-mix from in finding what’s right for you.

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Mrs Lisa O. is in a long-term relationship and knows the challenges that present themselves in all partnerships. Hence her will to tidy up with myths and fight stigma! pleasepinchmehard gives you all those sexy naughty things you daren’t ask anyone about.


pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.​

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Wilde Urnatur Maya Womb Medicine

My personal insights and feelings about Maya Womb Medicine by Wilde Urnatur, collective healing, and women’s well-being. Expect some buzzwords and impulses (not solutions), not just for show, but to get you thinking about these concepts.

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Fake Orgasms Are Like Shouting Wolf

Ever wondered about the real impact of faking orgasms on your relationship and yourself? Unmask the truth, ask yourself the tough questions, and rediscover the authentic magic that lies beyond the facade. It’s time for genuine connection and self-discovery.​

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TEDx Lisa Opel Outfit

Join me on a TEDx journey, where resilience meets style. From Marina Hoermanseder’s iconic black strap skirt to ITEM M6’s vibrant pink underwear, we unfold a narrative of empowerment and self-discovery together.

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