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PLEASURE | LIBIDO | ALL THINGS KINK
Discover new ways to increase your libido, ignite your sexual pleasure, ideas and tips for the kinky-minded, how-to’s, live readings, humour, an honest woman’s voice and above all: a realistic approach to relationships and sexuality.
And of course: short, erotic stories written by a woman, for women!
Raw, funny, realistic, body positive and with a British wink in the eye!
Rediscover your sexual desire!
pleasepinchmehard is your pleasure empowerment platform.
30% of women between the age of 18 and 59 show decreased interest in sexual activities.
Beside trauma, physical and mental restrictions we often find our mind & body connection is out of synchronization.
Many women struggle to get into the right headspace for sex.
Whilst a general overhaul and analysis of our lives can be beneficial, many want immediate libido solutions. Sit tight for some quick tips and some longer routes to a happy sex life.
It’s time to reclaim your sexuality, indulge in fantasies, revive forlorn desires and discover new possibilities.
With a focus on the loss of libido I strive to help you in those moments of despair. My platforms give you visual stimulus, audio content, humor to lighten the mood, in-depth information and guides and of course short, erotic stories to inspire your sexy life.
YOUR SEX IS THE BEST SEX!
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Wilde Urnatur Maya Womb Medicine
My personal insights and feelings about Maya Womb Medicine by Wilde Urnatur, collective healing, and women’s well-being. Expect some buzzwords and impulses (not solutions), not just for show, but to get you thinking about these concepts.
Fake Orgasms Are Like Shouting Wolf
Ever wondered about the real impact of faking orgasms on your relationship and yourself? Unmask the truth, ask yourself the tough questions, and rediscover the authentic magic that lies beyond the facade. It’s time for genuine connection and self-discovery.
TEDx Lisa Opel Outfit
Join me on a TEDx journey, where resilience meets style. From Marina Hoermanseder’s iconic black strap skirt to ITEM M6’s vibrant pink underwear, we unfold a narrative of empowerment and self-discovery together.
Therapist vs. Life Coach: Making the Right Choice
Wondering if you should turn to a therapist or a life coach? We’ll help you understand the distinctions, so you can make the best choice for your personal growth and well-being.
pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.
Wilde Urnatur Maya Womb Medicine
My personal insights and feelings about Maya Womb Medicine by Wilde Urnatur, collective healing, and women’s well-being. Expect some buzzwords and impulses (not solutions), not just for show, but to get you thinking about these concepts.
Fake Orgasms Are Like Shouting Wolf
Ever wondered about the real impact of faking orgasms on your relationship and yourself? Unmask the truth, ask yourself the tough questions, and rediscover the authentic magic that lies beyond the facade. It’s time for genuine connection and self-discovery.
TEDx Lisa Opel Outfit
Join me on a TEDx journey, where resilience meets style. From Marina Hoermanseder’s iconic black strap skirt to ITEM M6’s vibrant pink underwear, we unfold a narrative of empowerment and self-discovery together.
Therapist vs. Life Coach: Making the Right Choice
Wondering if you should turn to a therapist or a life coach? We’ll help you understand the distinctions, so you can make the best choice for your personal growth and well-being.
It feels like fighting fire with fire, but reading erotic fiction can greatly improve our libido.
Delving into a fantasy world can stimulate your imagination and the frontal cortex, which is where we find our pleasure area.
Take a few minutes and browse some stories.
If you feel inspired, send it to someone you’re thinking about!
Night Temptress – a short story about witch erotica
Fingertips on lips and skin, Tongues and silence, Words and sin. Each breath a poem, A moment so true, In wisdom, In knowing, Just me and you.
Take me, Use me, I’ll use you back, Give me your yes’s, Tie my hands behind my back.
Have a holly, poly Christmas! A short story about polyamory
„Agatha and I would love to take you for a coffee, if you like?“ Craig proffers.
AGATHA grins. AGATHA seems kind. AGATHA does not seem threatened by this preposterous proposition at all. AGATHA appears to be flirting with me.
When in Rome – kinky love
The scar above her belly button was one of the mild ones, but, still, she hated looking at herself. Closing her eyes, she allowed just her feelings to steer her actions. And surely enough, she was aroused, relaxed even.
room8 Hamburg – Sex hotel or couple retreat?
Room8 Hamburg is not a sex hotel in the traditional sense. It is a getaway for couples to reconnect. An area untainted by stress, differences and the past. Basically, a hotel room with all the trimmings of a sex party. Read more plus a short story in-situ!
Relationships can be a lot of work.
Ofcourse we want to put that work in.
Particularly in long-term relationships we are sometimes bored or lacking initiative to discuss fantasies and desires.
So here are some helpful articles to fuel your needs and perhaps help start that conversation with your partner to take your sex life (and libido) to the next level!
Five questions for a relationship check-in
Ready to spark up your relationship? Explore our five-question relationship check-in and uncover expert insights with playful exercises. How can you keep the flame alive in your love story?
Saint Sass
Explore the empowering world of Saint Sass, a visionary brand that redefines fashion with its bold blend of style and self-determined living. Discover how this Berlin-based startup is making a statement that encourages women to embrace their unique identities and challenge societal norms.
Marina Hoermanseder
Marina Hoermanseder: Redefining Fashion with Artistry and Sustainability – Explore the innovative designs and empowering ethos of this visionary fashion brand.
LOSS OF LIBIDO? LACKING SEXUAL DESIRE?
Start right here and browse MUMMYS_COMING: a self-experiment in which I rediscover my sexual pleasure and libido by holistically analyzing my life.
Nutrition, physical and mental health, family dynamics and self-care with your body, in your relationship and in the bedroom.
Disclaimer: there are no quick fixes to increase your libido.
In short, there are a lot of ways to start changing habits and take back a slice of pleasure.
Above all, let’s start by thinking about YOU!
Who am I to tell YOU about sex?
My name is Mrs Lisa O.
I am a woman, wife, mother and advocate for healthy, happy bodies that are confident to explore their desires and have their needs met.
As a woman who has been through eating disorders, pregnancies and self-confidence issues, I am empathetic and here to hear your fears, worries and inhibitions.
And my mission is to set you free.
That is to say I want to free you from the shackles society, pop culture, media, filters and our childhood have given us.
To sum up, I am here to tell you there is no right or wrong in how you experience pleasure and what makes your libido rise or fall.
I don’t have all the answers but by heck have I got a lot of things to tell you about libido and sexuality.
Grab a coffee, tea, water, wine, whisky etc. and join me for frolics and fiddle-dee-dees.
PS. I speak with a British accent. Just so you know.
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