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PLEASURE | LIBIDO | ALL THINGS KINK

Discover new ways to increase your libido, ignite your sexual pleasure, ideas and tips for the kinky-minded and above all: a realistic approach to relationships and sexuality. 

And of course: short, erotic stories!

Rediscover your sexual desire!

pleasepinchmehard is your pleasure empowerment platform.

30% of women between the age of 18 and 59 show decreased interest in sexual activities.

Beside trauma, physical and mental restrictions we often find our mind & body connection is out of synchronization. 

Many women struggle to get into the right headspace for sex.

Whilst a general overhaul and analysis of our lives can be beneficial, many want immediate libido solutions. Sit tight for some quick tips and some longer routes to a happy sex life.

It’s time to reclaim your sexuality, indulge in fantasies, revive forlorn desires and discover new possibilities.

With a focus on the loss of libido I strive to help you in those moments of despair. My platforms give you visual stimulus, audio content, humor to lighten the mood, in-depth information and guides and of course short, erotic stories to inspire your sexy life.

YOUR SEX IS THE BEST SEX!

Recent posts and stories
pleasepinchmehard sex questionnaire - for women

Female pleasure & how to find yours

Lots of sex, no sex, self-pleasure, no pleasure, intimacy, sensuality and more… Tell me, what do you desire?
Not so easy to answer, right? But you’re in the right place. Let’s work through this together.

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A short, erotic story about female pleasure and bisexuality

It’s not all black and white

Observe the lady over there. The one with the white trousers. She’s been lusting over that lady there; the one with the white top. I wonder what they’ll be getting up to this evening? Oh, I think that’s making them blush. Apologies.

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Mrs Lisa O. pleasepinchmehard - Female pleasure is everything!

LOSS OF LIBIDO? LACKING SEXUAL DESIRE?

Start right here and browse MUMMYS_COMING: a self-experiment in which I rediscover my sexual pleasure and libido by holistically analyzing my life.

Nutrition, physical and mental health, family dynamics and self-care with your body, in your relationship and in the bedroom.

Disclaimer: there are no quick fixes to increase your libido. 

In short, there are a lot of ways to start changing habits and take back a slice of pleasure.

Above all, let’s start by thinking about YOU!

It feels like fighting fire with fire, but reading erotic fiction can greatly improve our libido.

Delving into a fantasy world can stimulate your imagination and the frontal cortex, which is where we find our pleasure area.

Take a few minutes and browse some stories.
If you feel inspired, send it to someone you’re thinking about!

A short, erotic story about female pleasure and bisexuality

It’s not all black and white

Observe the lady over there. The one with the white trousers. She’s been lusting over that lady there; the one with the white top. I wonder what they’ll be getting up to this evening? Oh, I think that’s making them blush. Apologies.

Read More »
pleasepinchmehard butterfly tattoo on a woman - a short erotic story about two females and squirting

Discipline, Darling.

Two women, a mutual arrangement and an empowering metamorphosis. For ladies who like ladies but are waiting to spread their wings.

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Photo showing three pairs of feet under a blanket: a couple and a baby. The story is about postpartum sex.

POSTPARTUM REALITY

HER & HIM | MOTHERHOOD
They found themselves in much familiarity of each other’s bodies yet it all felt new. Lilly’s nipples felt sore as he touched them. „Mm, not my nipples“, she admitted, somewhat defeatedly. Sexy. Matt didn’t flinch. Instead he stroked and caressed every bit of her skin. It felt great and she relaxed in his love.

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Relationships can be a lot of work.

Ofcourse we want to put that work in.
Particularly in long-term relationships we are sometimes bored or lacking initiative to discuss fantasies and desires.

So here are some helpful articles to fuel your needs and perhaps help start that conversation with your partner to take your sex life (and libido) to the next level!

pleasepinchmehard sex questionnaire - for women

Female pleasure & how to find yours

Lots of sex, no sex, self-pleasure, no pleasure, intimacy, sensuality and more… Tell me, what do you desire?
Not so easy to answer, right? But you’re in the right place. Let’s work through this together.

Read More »

Who am I to tell YOU about sex?

My name is Mrs Lisa O. 

I am a woman, wife, mother and advocate for healthy, happy bodies that are confident to explore their desires and have their needs met.

As a woman who has been through eating disorders, pregnancies and self-confidence issues, I am empathetic and here to hear your fears, worries and inhibitions.

And my mission is to set you free.

That is to say I want to free you from the shackles society, pop culture, media, filters and our childhood have given us.

To sum up, I am here to tell you there is no right or wrong in how you experience pleasure and what makes your libido rise or fall.

I don’t have all the answers but by heck have I got a lot of things to tell you about libido and sexuality.

Grab a coffee, tea, water, wine, whisky etc. and join me for frolics and fiddle-dee-dees.

PS. I speak with a British accent. Just so you know.

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