pleasepinchmehard short reads
pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.
While the subject pleasure and sex are omnipresent in my work, it takes a holistic approach to our life and personality to really work on our sexual (r)evolution. So these short reads are all those other thoughts I’m having as a woman, mother, sister, friend and lover.
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This is what happens when flow meets sex
Discover the secrets to heightened intimacy in our feature on the art of sexual flow. Explore the benefits, delve into the joys of life’s natural rhythms, and master the art of creating a deeper connection with your partner. Immerse yourself in the world of slow, sensual experiences that ignite passion and fortify your bond.

Compersion: when being betrayed makes you happy
Explore the world of Compersion with insights into both embodied and attitudinal aspects. Discover practices, real-life examples, and reading recommendations to embrace this transformative journey of love and joy.

What’s your sexual spirit animal?
Uncover your sexual spirit animal and embark on a journey of self-discovery. Explore the unique traits and desires that shape your intimate connections. Embrace your sexuality authentically and communicate your needs for more fulfilling relationships.

6 Hard Truths About Jealousy Nobody Wants to Hear but Everybody Knows
Are you struggling with jealousy in your relationship? Let’s talk about the hard truths we often avoid but secretly know about this emotion. Together, we’ll find ways to navigate and conquer jealousy for a happier, healthier connection.

Embracing sensitivity: your superpower in a noisy world
Ever wondered if your sensitivity could be your greatest superpower? Dive into this empowering journey to learn how embracing your emotions, setting boundaries, and finding balance can make your life more fulfilling.

Let’s talk about your self-pleasure schedule
Discover the art of self-pleasure and why your unique ‘self-love schedule’ is essential for well-being. Dive into stress relief, surprising benefits, and top tips for a fulfilling journey of self-discovery.

The intimacy of absence in relationships: How personal space ignites desire
In our fast-paced world, maintaining intimacy in relationships often seems synonymous with constant togetherness. But what if I told you that sometimes, absence can make the heart grow fonder?

Is it an emotional affair, open relationship, or something more?
Here’s the scoop on emotional affairs – they’re more common than you think! Join us as we uncover the secrets of handling emotional distancing in relationships.

Why smart people have less sex
Exploring the intricate relationship between intelligence and sexual frequency, uncovering factors that shape this connection, including ideas on how to beat the mind conundrum.

21 sentences that will make you more attractive in your relationship
Enhance your relationship with 21 heartfelt sentences that add authenticity and deepen your connection, making you even more irresistible to your partner.

Redefining female rage in society
Uncover the 7 empowering habits of women who channel anger for positive change. Explore how embracing rage sparks authenticity, challenges norms, and ignites impactful action.

Embracing open communication through farting
Explore how something as ordinary as farting can have extraordinary effects on a relationship. Discover how embracing this natural bodily function can encourage open communication, strengthen trust, and foster a more authentic connection between partners.

Challenging stereotypes: Beyond “men are always horny and women always have a headache”
Explore the complexities of gendered stereotypes surrounding sexual desire. Delve into the debunking of clichés like “Men are always horny and women always have a headache,” fostering understanding and breaking free from limiting assumptions.

Unlocking your potential: the art of shadow work and self-discovery
Shadow work is a journey of self-discovery that leads to profound self-mastery and the realization of your fullest potential. Read more incl. tips and five steps to get started!

From monogamy to more: the conversation about opening your relationship
Unveiling passion, trust, and growth beyond conventions on a road less travelled. Shattering norms and opening your marriage might save it. Including how to have that talk!

Exploring love and lust
Exploring love and lust: Unraveling the emotions and desires that shape relationships. Discover the key differences between passionate lust and deep, enduring love.

Embracing my own path: Why I don’t need my parents’ approval anymore
How do you feel about embracing your own path, even if it means breaking away from traditional expectations? Have you found ways to balance your desires with your family’s values?

Female Pleasure Society – Natural Pleasure Elixir Erfahrungsbericht
Entdecke, wie das Natural Pleasure Elixir der Female Pleasure Society die Lust von Frauen wiederbelebt. Ein Erfahrungsbericht über Sinnlichkeit, Selbstfürsorge und neue Entdeckungen.

TEDx Frankfurt 2023 – TED Talk with Lisa Opel
Lisa Opel takes the spotlight as a distinguished speaker at TEDx Frankfurt 2023! Join us for an independently organized TED Talk event filled with captivating speakers. Lisa delves into the realm of pleasure.

Motherhood, sex and self-exploration
Exploring kinks, BDSM and fetishes can be a powerful way for mums to reclaim their sexuality, practice self-care, and embark on a journey of personal growth and self-exploration. Let me tell you why and how.

Hallo Yoni Online Kongress mit Lisa Opel
VIDEO INTERVIEW (DE) – Der Online Sex Kongress war ein wahres Highlight in diesem Jahr! Als Speakerin hatte ich die Ehre, über das Thema “Lust Verlust” zu sprechen und mit vielen anderen großartigen Expertinnen und Experten zusammenzuarbeiten.

Barre in Hamburg: the ultimate workout for mums
As I sauntered into my first-ever barre workout at the Youpila Studio in Hamburg, I couldn’t help but feel like a fish out of water. I mean, what kind of workout involves a ballet barre and tiny pulses that make your legs feel like they’re made of jelly?

Perimenopause & Menopause Resources
With this topic still resonating as a massive taboo in todays society, here is a list of resources to get you started into better understanding the changes in your body when things start feeling different.
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