pleasepinchmehard short reads

pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.

While the subject pleasure and sex are omnipresent in my work, it takes a holistic approach to our life and personality to really work on our sexual (r)evolution. So these short reads are all those other thoughts I’m having as a woman, mother, sister, friend and lover.

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Wilde Urnatur Maya Womb Medicine

My personal insights and feelings about Maya Womb Medicine by Wilde Urnatur, collective healing, and women’s well-being. Expect some buzzwords and impulses (not solutions), not just for show, but to get you thinking about these concepts.

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Fake Orgasms Are Like Shouting Wolf

Ever wondered about the real impact of faking orgasms on your relationship and yourself? Unmask the truth, ask yourself the tough questions, and rediscover the authentic magic that lies beyond the facade. It’s time for genuine connection and self-discovery.​

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Lisa Opel's TEDx Outfit

TEDx Lisa Opel Outfit

Join me on a TEDx journey, where resilience meets style. From Marina Hoermanseder’s iconic black strap skirt to ITEM M6’s vibrant pink underwear, we unfold a narrative of empowerment and self-discovery together.

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Saint Sass

Explore the empowering world of Saint Sass, a visionary brand that redefines fashion with its bold blend of style and self-determined living. Discover how this Berlin-based startup is making a statement that encourages women to embrace their unique identities and challenge societal norms.

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Marina Hoermanseder

Marina Hoermanseder: Redefining Fashion with Artistry and Sustainability – Explore the innovative designs and empowering ethos of this visionary fashion brand.

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La Dolce Vulva Statement Socks

Discover ‘La Dolce Vulva’: statement socks redefining fashion with a message of empowerment and self-love. These socks celebrate diversity and support Vulvaversity, challenging beauty norms and promoting sustainability.

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A photo of diverse sex toys on a pink background for an article by Lisa Opel for pleasepinchmehard SHORT READS about hygiene and mold regarding sex toys

Can sex toys go moldy?

Can sex toys really go moldy? Learn how to safeguard your intimate accessories and ensure a clean and healthy experience. Don’t let mold fears ruin your pleasure—find out the facts now.

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This is what happens when flow meets sex

Discover the secrets to heightened intimacy in our feature on the art of sexual flow. Explore the benefits, delve into the joys of life’s natural rhythms, and master the art of creating a deeper connection with your partner. Immerse yourself in the world of slow, sensual experiences that ignite passion and fortify your bond.

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Photo of a bear depicting a sexual spirit animal for an article by Lisa Opel for pleasepinchmehard about discovering your sexual spirit animal to better understand your sexuality

What’s your sexual spirit animal?

Uncover your sexual spirit animal and embark on a journey of self-discovery. Explore the unique traits and desires that shape your intimate connections. Embrace your sexuality authentically and communicate your needs for more fulfilling relationships.

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Lisa Opel TEDx Talk affiliates picture with BEDUCATED, CHEEX and FUNFACTORY

Lisa Opel TEDx Affiliates

Meet my TED Talk affiliates: FUNFACTORY, CHEEX, and BEDUCATED. Discover how these empowering brands align with my mission of self-expression and empowerment, promoting personal growth, sexual liberation, and nurturing fulfilling relationships.

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Motherhood, sex and self-exploration

Exploring kinks, BDSM and fetishes can be a powerful way for mums to reclaim their sexuality, practice self-care, and embark on a journey of personal growth and self-exploration. Let me tell you why and how.

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