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PLEASURE | LIBIDO | ALL THINGS KINK
Discover new ways to increase your libido, ignite your sexual pleasure, ideas and tips for the kinky-minded, how-to’s, live readings, humour, an honest woman’s voice and above all: a realistic approach to relationships and sexuality.
And of course: short, erotic stories written by a woman, for women!
Raw, funny, realistic, body positive and with a British wink in the eye!
Rediscover your sexual desire!
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30% of women between the age of 18 and 59 show decreased interest in sexual activities.
Beside trauma, physical and mental restrictions we often find our mind & body connection is out of synchronization.
Many women struggle to get into the right headspace for sex.
Whilst a general overhaul and analysis of our lives can be beneficial, many want immediate libido solutions. Sit tight for some quick tips and some longer routes to a happy sex life.
It’s time to reclaim your sexuality, indulge in fantasies, revive forlorn desires and discover new possibilities.
With a focus on the loss of libido I strive to help you in those moments of despair. My platforms give you visual stimulus, audio content, humor to lighten the mood, in-depth information and guides and of course short, erotic stories to inspire your sexy life.
YOUR SEX IS THE BEST SEX!
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40 Strange Questions To Ask Yourself To Find Out Who You Really Are
Ever caught yourself questioning, well, yourself? Maybe it’s during a 3 a.m. existential crisis or that weirdly insightful shower moment. Asking yourself the right questions can spark self-discovery and a whole lot of “Wait, what?” moments. Buckle up—things are about to get strange!
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Marina DEVIANCE BDSM Dating App
BDSM-Online-Dating leicht gemacht! Marina von Deviance spricht über kinky Matches, Red Flags, Pet Play, Natursekt und Lisa verrät warum Voice Memos euer Sexleben bereichern können. 🔥 Jetzt reinhören!
Doms, Subs, and Brats, Oh My! A Cheeky Guide to Power Play Perfection
Curious about BDSM dynamics? Whether you’re a commanding Dom, a devoted Sub, or a mischievous Brat, this fun and insightful guide breaks down power play, tips for thriving in your role, and how to communicate like a pro—because kink is all about pleasure and consent.
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Leanne Yau – Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
Award-winning polyamory educator Leanne Yau joins Deep and Dirty to unpack non-monogamy myths, navigating boundaries, and the personal growth that comes with open relationships. A must-listen for anyone curious about love beyond monogamy!
pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.
40 Strange Questions To Ask Yourself To Find Out Who You Really Are
Ever caught yourself questioning, well, yourself? Maybe it’s during a 3 a.m. existential crisis or that weirdly insightful shower moment. Asking yourself the right questions can spark self-discovery and a whole lot of “Wait, what?” moments. Buckle up—things are about to get strange!
Doms, Subs, and Brats, Oh My! A Cheeky Guide to Power Play Perfection
Curious about BDSM dynamics? Whether you’re a commanding Dom, a devoted Sub, or a mischievous Brat, this fun and insightful guide breaks down power play, tips for thriving in your role, and how to communicate like a pro—because kink is all about pleasure and consent.
Is Breaking Up Really an Asshole Move?
Breaking up isn’t inherently an asshole move—but doing it poorly is. Here’s a funny, insightful take on why honesty beats staying in a relationship out of guilt.
How to F*ck Like You Mean It: The Art of Passionate, Primal Sex
Forget choreographed, nice sex—it’s time to unleash your wild side. This guide will teach you how to f*ck with passion, intensity, and zero inhibitions. From primal eye contact to using your hands (and teeth) like you mean it, we’re diving into the art of truly losing yourself in the moment. If you’re ready for sex that feels like fire, this is your roadmap.
It feels like fighting fire with fire, but reading erotic fiction can greatly improve our libido.
Delving into a fantasy world can stimulate your imagination and the frontal cortex, which is where we find our pleasure area.
Take a few minutes and browse some stories.
If you feel inspired, send it to someone you’re thinking about!
Night Temptress – a short story about witch erotica
Fingertips on lips and skin, Tongues and silence, Words and sin. Each breath a poem, A moment so true, In wisdom, In knowing, Just me and you.
Take me, Use me, I’ll use you back, Give me your yes’s, Tie my hands behind my back.
Have a holly, poly Christmas! A short story about polyamory
„Agatha and I would love to take you for a coffee, if you like?“ Craig proffers.
AGATHA grins. AGATHA seems kind. AGATHA does not seem threatened by this preposterous proposition at all. AGATHA appears to be flirting with me.
When in Rome – kinky love
The scar above her belly button was one of the mild ones, but, still, she hated looking at herself. Closing her eyes, she allowed just her feelings to steer her actions. And surely enough, she was aroused, relaxed even.
room8 Hamburg – Sex hotel or couple retreat?
Room8 Hamburg is not a sex hotel in the traditional sense. It is a getaway for couples to reconnect. An area untainted by stress, differences and the past. Basically, a hotel room with all the trimmings of a sex party. Read more plus a short story in-situ!
Relationships can be a lot of work.
Ofcourse we want to put that work in.
Particularly in long-term relationships we are sometimes bored or lacking initiative to discuss fantasies and desires.
So here are some helpful articles to fuel your needs and perhaps help start that conversation with your partner to take your sex life (and libido) to the next level!
40 Strange Questions To Ask Yourself To Find Out Who You Really Are
Ever caught yourself questioning, well, yourself? Maybe it’s during a 3 a.m. existential crisis or that weirdly insightful shower moment. Asking yourself the right questions can spark self-discovery and a whole lot of “Wait, what?” moments. Buckle up—things are about to get strange!
Doms, Subs, and Brats, Oh My! A Cheeky Guide to Power Play Perfection
Curious about BDSM dynamics? Whether you’re a commanding Dom, a devoted Sub, or a mischievous Brat, this fun and insightful guide breaks down power play, tips for thriving in your role, and how to communicate like a pro—because kink is all about pleasure and consent.
Is Breaking Up Really an Asshole Move?
Breaking up isn’t inherently an asshole move—but doing it poorly is. Here’s a funny, insightful take on why honesty beats staying in a relationship out of guilt.
LOSS OF LIBIDO? LACKING SEXUAL DESIRE?
Start right here and browse MUMMYS_COMING: a self-experiment in which I rediscover my sexual pleasure and libido by holistically analyzing my life.
Nutrition, physical and mental health, family dynamics and self-care with your body, in your relationship and in the bedroom.
Disclaimer: there are no quick fixes to increase your libido.
In short, there are a lot of ways to start changing habits and take back a slice of pleasure.
Above all, let’s start by thinking about YOU!
Who am I to tell YOU about sex?
My name is Mrs Lisa O.
I am a woman, wife, mother and advocate for healthy, happy bodies that are confident to explore their desires and have their needs met.
As a woman who has been through eating disorders, pregnancies and self-confidence issues, I am empathetic and here to hear your fears, worries and inhibitions.
And my mission is to set you free.
That is to say I want to free you from the shackles society, pop culture, media, filters and our childhood have given us.
To sum up, I am here to tell you there is no right or wrong in how you experience pleasure and what makes your libido rise or fall.
I don’t have all the answers but by heck have I got a lot of things to tell you about libido and sexuality.
Grab a coffee, tea, water, wine, whisky etc. and join me for frolics and fiddle-dee-dees.
PS. I speak with a British accent. Just so you know.
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