Alright, babe, let’s talk about real sex—the kind that leaves your thighs shaking, your sheets ruined, and your brain somewhere between “holy sh*t” and “did I just black out?” I’m talking about primal, uninhibited, no-holds-barred, I-want-to-eat-you-alive sex. The kind where you’re not worrying about angles, lighting, or whether your stomach looks flat—you’re too busy feeling everything in the deepest parts of your body.

Because, let’s be honest, a lot of sex today is fine. It’s cute. It’s choreographed, a little too polite, and way too focused on looking good rather than actually feeling great. And that’s where we’re about to change the game.

You’re not here for meh sex—you’re here to learn how to f*ck like you mean it. So let’s get to it.

1. Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body

If you’re too busy thinking, you’re not feeling. And feeling—like, really feeling—is what takes sex from “nice” to “I-need-a-cigarette-after-this.” So stop worrying about your cellulite, your O-face, or whether you sound sexy enough. Newsflash: if you’re into it, you are sexy. Period.

Instead, focus on sensation. How does their skin feel against yours? How hot is their breath on your neck? What happens when you slow down and really savor the way their mouth moves over your body? Sink into those feelings, and let them take over.

2. Make Eye Contact Like You’re Trying to Set Them on Fire

Nothing screams primal energy like deep, unrelenting eye contact. I’m talking the kind that makes your stomach drop and your pulse race. Too often, we’re afraid of looking too intense, but screw that—be intense.

When you’re on top, hold their gaze like you own them. When you’re underneath, meet their eyes with a challenge. Eye contact creates an insane level of intimacy, and that tension? It’s sexier than any lingerie.

3. Make Noise. Real Noise.

Silent sex is for people who are trying not to wake the roommates. If that’s you—fine, I get it. But if you’re holding back moans and gasps because you think it’s “too much”? Stop it right now.

Moaning, gasping, whispering filthy things in their ear—it’s all part of raw, passionate sex. Your sounds tell your partner exactly what feels good, and trust me, they want to hear it. Plus, if you’re fully letting go, your body will naturallyrespond with all the delicious, needy, uninhibited noises that turn good sex into legendary sex.

4. Let Your Body Take Over (AKA, Move Like You Mean It)

Your body knows what it wants—you just have to let it lead. Don’t be afraid to arch your back, grip their shoulders, push them down, or wrap your legs around them like you’re trying to fuse into one being.

If you want something, take it. If you want them to go harder, pull them closer. If you want to be tossed around a little, show them you can handle it. Be active in your pleasure, and stop waiting for them to figure it out.

5. Use Your Hands (and Your Teeth, and Your Nails… You Get It)

Sex is not just about what’s happening between your legs—it’s a full-body experience. And one of the most underratedways to make it hotter? Your hands.

Scratch their back. Tug their hair. Grip their throat (with consent, obviously). Let your fingers trace their ribs, grip their hips, slide down their spine. Touch like you need them closer, like you own their body for the moment.

And if you’re feeling really bold? Use your teeth. A playful nip on their earlobe, a slow bite on their thigh—yeah, that’ll do it.

6. Say What You Want, Take What You Want

Passionate, primal sex doesn’t happen when you’re playing nice. It happens when you stop hinting and start asking. No one’s a mind reader, babe—if you want them to go harder, tell them. If you want their mouth right there, guide them. If you need a break, say it.

And don’t just communicate—command. There’s something unspeakably hot about a confident, “Fck me like you mean it*” or a breathless, “Don’t stop.” Your words have power—use them.

7. Aftercare Like a Damn Pro

After sex this intense, you need aftercare. This is the part where you slow down, breathe together, and remind each other that, yes, you both survived that earth-shattering experience. Cuddle, whisper sweet (or dirty) nothings, grab water, stroke their hair—whatever helps you both come back to reality.

Aftercare isn’t just for BDSM or kink—it’s for anyone who just f*cked like animals and needs a soft landing after. Trust me, it makes everything feel even more intimate.

Final Thought: Own Your Desires

At the end of the day, f*cking like you mean it comes down to this: owning your pleasure, letting go of self-consciousness, and fully surrendering to the moment. Because nothing—and I mean nothing—is sexier than someone who is fully, shamelessly in their pleasure.

So next time you’re in bed, stop having sex and start experiencing it. Let your body take over, stop giving a f*ck about looking “perfect,” and get lost in the moment. That’s how you have sex that feels like fire.

Now go forth, and f*ck like you mean it.

Fancy a story about taking it, meaning it, fucking raw and uninhibited? Here you go.