Where can I find the best FREE and paid erotica online?
Audio, visual, literature, and more! Free, flirty and forbidden, explosive, exclusive erotica. Where to find it in one compact list!
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Thank goodness we live in a time and age where erotica of any shape and form is available to us! Woohoo! Thank you, internet! Now we can get free erotica at the click of a button instead of stashing VHS or DVDs secretly in drawers and cupboards.
Pop your browser on private (or not!) and off we go!
But lots of people don’t know where to start, where to look.
What’s good? What’s not? Where can I find free (or kind of free) erotica?
Don’t worry, your search on where to find great erotica content ends here, with this mammoth of a list I have compiled and keep up to date for you.
Whether you’re looking for audio, amateur, fetish, kinks, visual, bdsm, sexy stories, apps to guide you through your sexuality, apps for couples, workshops, films etc.
With a short description, the type of subscription and in which languages they offer their content, browse through and enjoy.
Oh, and incase you’re having second thoughts on stimulating your mind, here are the facts:
ALL AROUNDERS
(featuring audio, visual, workshops and more!): A bit of everything!
Where can I find communities, information, workshops, articles, videos, audio and more?
Easy. Many companies now have a bit of everything on their pages or in their apps. Here are a few erotica pages & apps (some are free, many offer a free trial but then have paid content).
Literotica (ENG) | FREE
Top source for the hottest in erotic fiction and fantasy. Literotica features 100% original sex stories from a variety of authors (see site index).
BDSM Cafe (ENG) | FREE
BDSM Café is a complete platform for any BDSM enthusiast. With short stories, resources such as how-to’s, novel and movie recommendations, chat (community) and more, it is a go-to for anyone looking into BDSM.
GetCheex (ENG/DE/NL) | PAID but has a free trial
CHEEX is a new community for everyone who is curious about sexual stimulation and education. Beyond that it is a space that meets women’s needs when looking for pornography. They strive to depict sexuality in a way that is close to reality: diverse, fun and consensual. With unlimited access to erotic films, audio stories, and education (including workshops and how-to’s) for everyone. (Use my code PLEASEPINCHMEHARD for a free 7-Day Trial period when you sign up for a yearly subscription).
AUDIO EROTICA
What is audio erotica?
Audio erotica describes sexually explicit audio content. Many people like audio erotica because they are hands-free with all the perks of stimulating their fantasies and minds. Explore fantasies comfortably and safely. This type of stimulation is also helpful in giving you words to articulate your needs and desires in your own sex life. They are normally narrated stories available on apps or webpages.
Here are a few for you to browse through (paid & free):
Girl on the Net (ENG) | FREE
Girl on the Net is one of the UK’s most popular sex blogs, featuring real life sex stories, sex news, guest blogs and unique sexy illustrations.
Bellesa (ENG) | FREE
Amongst other formats, Bellesa has an audio erotica podcast featuring the hottest stories from Bellesa’s exclusive erotica collection.
Dipsea (ENG) | PAID but has a free trial | APP available
Unlock your sensuality with a subscription to an ever-growing collection of sexy audio stories, wellness sessions, and dreamy sleep scenes. Female-led. Also fun to follow on TikTok & IG.
AudioDesires (ENG, ESP, & DE) | PAID but has a free trial
Erotic audio stories for women and couples. Relatable erotic audio stories with immersive ASMR sound effects. Listen by yourself or with a partner. Kink-positive, LGBTQ+ friendly and portray people and couples of all cultural backgrounds plus sex and masturbation guides.
Femtasy (DE) | PAID but has a free trial
Audio-only, female-centric, body-neutral, kink-positive, consensual, ethical.
EROTIC LITERATURE / EROTICA
What’s the difference between erotic literature and erotica?
Erotic literature comprises fictional and factual stories and accounts of eros (passionate, romantic or sexual relationships) intended to arouse similar feelings in readers. This contrasts erotica, which focuses more specifically on sexual feelings.
Erotic fiction has been credited in large part for the sexual awakening and liberation of women in the 20th and 21st centuries.
(Source: Wikipedia)
Many of the other pages named above in allrounders also have stories but these are more focused.
FREE & PAID EROTICA ONLINE
Remittance Girl (ENG) | FREE
The erotica, stories, series and novellas include themes of BDSM, bondage, fetish, threesomes, domination, submission, and rape fantasies.
Sugar Butch Chronicles | FREE
Sinclair (they/them) is the founder and writer behind Sugarbutch Chronicles, a blog of their personal and explicit writings featuring queer sex, kink, gender, and relationships.
Girl on the Net (ENG) | FREE
Girl on the Net is one of the UK’s most popular sex blogs, featuring real life sex stories, sex news, guest blogs and unique sexy illustrations.
Bellesa (ENG) | PAID Content
Enjoy this hand-curated collection of 600+ erotic stories (including New York Times bestsellers) and audio erotica, exclusively for Bellesa Plus members, including e-books.
Berlinable (ENG) | PAID but with a free 7-day trial
An independent online publishing house in Berlin with audio erotica and over 500+ stories. My works are also featured as audio and manuscripts!
DE (German FREE & Paid Erotic Literature / Erotica Webpages):
Fem.com (DE) | FREE
ein aktuelles Lifestyle-Magazin für Frauen. Unsere Redaktion recherchiert und schreibt für die Ressorts Liebe & Lust, Gesundheit & Ernährung, Beauty und mehr mit erotischen Geschichten in Form von Romanen aber auch viele Artikel zu dem Thema Sex & Lust.
Erozuna (DE) | FREE
“Erozuna – Erotisches zur Nacht” ist ein Portal für erotische Literatur, Photographie sowie Kunst und Lifestyle. Viele männliche Autoren, aber auch einige weibliche.
EROTIC LITERATURE BOOKS
The majority of these books are available on Amazon and in various languages.
Emmanuelle by Emmanuelle Arsan
The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough
Lady Chatterley’s Lover by D. H. Lawrence
Story of O by Pauline Réage
A Sport and a Pastime by James Salter
Bad Behavior by Mary Gaitskill
Written on the Body by Jeanette Winterson
The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera
Couples by John Updike
Endless Love by Scott Spencer
The Vagina Monologues by Eve Ensler
Three women by Lisa Taddeo
Praise by Sara Cate
Beautiful Bastard by Christina Lauren
Priest by Sierra Simone
Seven Days in June by Tia Williams
The Right Swipe by Alisha Rai
Neon Gods by Katee Robert
Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters
The Last Nude by Ellis Avery
The Other Boleyn Girl by Philippa Gregory
Anonymous Sex edited by Hillary Jordan and Cheryl Lu-Lien Tan
Lust by Susan Minot
Kink edited by Garth Greenwell and R.O. Kwon
Women on top of the world edited by Lucy-Anne Holmes
Anonymous sex edited by Hillary Jordan & Cheryl Lu-Lien Tan
And ofcourse my book: GIVE IT TO ME! Available as an e-book, on Kindle Unlimited and paperback.
Life of the Party by Olivia Gatwood
Slug by Hollie McNish
Normal People by Sally Rooney
Call Me by Your Name by André Aciman
The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
Outlander by Diana Gabaldon
The Story of O by Just Jaeckin
EDUCATIONAL LITERATURE ON SEXUALITY
These are books that explore our sexuality. There are diverse topics from relationships to historical views on sexuality, analyzing our psychology to gain access to our sexual self, exploring sexual practices such as BDSM or kink, our erotic being, alternative relationship models and gender studies.
Also largely available in most online and physical bookstores.
The evolution of desire by David M. Buss
Pleasure activism by Adrienne Marie Brown
Exploring BDSM: A Workbook for Couples (or More!) Discovering Kink by Ms Morgan Thorne
Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto, Emily Nagoski
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
The Come as You Are Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Science of Sex by Emily Nagoski
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan
You Know, Sex: Gender, Puberty, and Other Things by Cory Silverberg
Life Isn’t Binary: On Being Both, Beyond, and In-Between by Meg-John Barker & Alex Iantaffi
A Curious History of Sex by Kate Lister
The Road Less Travelled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth by M Scott Peck
Mind The Gap: The truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life by Dr Karen Gurney
PERV by Jesse Bering
Eight Dates by Gottmann & Abrams
Women’s Anatomy of arousal by Sheri Winston
German Educational Literature on Sexuality
Make love – Ein Aufklärungsbuch by Ann-Marlene Henning
Love your sex by Gianna Baccio
Lustfaktor by Julia Henchen
Alles über das weibliche Geschlecht by Britz & Schmitt
Zeit für Liebe: Sex, Intimität und Ekstase in Beziehungen by Diana Richardson
Wie wir lieben: Vom Ende der Monogamie by Friedemann Karig
Ohjaaa! – Journal für deine Lust by Annabell Neuhof & Julia Henchen
VISUAL EROTICA / PORNOGRAPHY
For those of us who need visual stimulation to ignite our arousal, passion and desire, here are a few webpages where you can do so. The reason the majority of these are paid content is because they are ethical sites where performers are paid and treated with respect. Many are run by women. Should you be looking for something entirely free, I am not your person. Google it.
ETHICAL PORN PLATFORMS
GetCheex (ENG/DE/NL) | PAID but has a free trial
See information in allrounders.
A four chambered heart (ENG) | SIGN-UP REQUIRED
Creative pornography project making short films with sex & cinema.
Erika Lust: XConfessions & Lust Cinema (ENG) | PAID
Enter the sex-positive world of Erika Lust. Watch her movies, read the online mag Lust Zine, go behind the scenes.
PinkLabel.TV (ENG) | PAID
Indie Adult Cinema by Porn Filmmakers with Feminist, Queer, and Ethical Perspectives.
BrightDesire (ENG) | PAID
Sex positive, feminist porn site that features award winning short films, real life couples, solo scenes, erotic fiction and lots more.
Beautiful Agony (ENG) | SIGN-UP REQUIRED
Dedicated to the beauty of human orgasm.
Kink.com (ENG) | FREE
A site led by serious and experienced pornographers. Offering thousands of original fetish videos and millions of pictures.
MOVIES & SERIES
Drop-down list:
Happiest season
You, me, her
Amar
Sex/Life
Sex education
Love sex and goop
Je mehr, desto besser
Cam
Newness
Burlesque
After
White Girl
Alex Strangelove
The Tree of Blood
Us and Them
Someone Great
Battle
Fifty Shades of Grey
Duck Butter
In the Shadow of Iris
Dry Martina
The Secretary
Lie with me
Sexual Desire
The sweet hereafter
Exotica
Antares
En la Cama
Intimacy
Now & Later
Auftauchen (german)
The Story of O: untold pleasures
Body of evidence
9,5 weeks
Fatal Attraction
Bitter Moon
Black Snake Moan
PLATFORMS TO CONNECT ON
SkirtClub (ENG)| FREE
Members Club. Females only. A private network for intellectually and sexually curious women.
Joyclub (DE) | FREE
Germany’s largest sex and erotic community: Free sex forum, over 4 million members, dates, sex contacts, private nude photos and much more.
Lush Stories (ENG) | FREE SIGN-UP
The best online community for sex stories and erotica.
EROTIC & SEXUALITY GUIDES / WORKSHOPS / APPS & MORE (free & paid)
Ferly (ENG) | PAID but has a free trial | APP available
Your Audio Guide To Mindful Sex. Download Ferly for free on the App Store today. Sexual Self-Care made simple, sensual and unashamedly normal. Including stories.
Rosy (ENG) | PAID but has a free trial | APP available
Rosy is the ultimate sex app for women looking to improve their sexual health and overall well-being. Rosy is PRIVATE & SECURE, accessible wherever you need it, whenever you need it. Take advantage and download Rosy at no cost to start rediscovering your sensual self. Including a community, coaches and experts. Also fabulous on Instagram!
OMGYES.com (available in many languages) | PAID One-Time Purchase
Discover new ways to increase sexual pleasure, based in new research with 20,000 women. Explore the latest science about what feels good and why – through fun, honest videos. Make a great thing better. Practical and specific.
The Havelock Clinic (ENG) | FREE & PAID
A plethora of resources with lists of questions to ask yourself to better understand your sexuality. Definite recommendation!
Emjoy (ENG) | PAID but with a free trial
Audio wellbeing and wellcare app specialized in female pleasure & sexual wellness, with science-backed content tailored to you.
Myndpaar (DE) | PAID but with a free trial
Your digital companion for you and your relationships. For more satisfaction and appreciation.
SEX SHOPS (GERMANY)
If you know of more great sex, fetish and BDSM shops in Germany, let me know! yes(at)pleasepinchmehard.com
Fun factory
Other nature
Playstixx
Sexclusivitäten
TransToys
Boutique Hautnah
Fuck yeah – Sexshopkollektiv
Boutique Bizarre
Yes We Cum
Le Pop Lingerie
Juicy Leipzig
Fun Factory
ONLINE SEX TOYS AND PARAPHERNALIA
There are many online platforms where you can purchase diverse sex toys and other paraphernalia. I advise you to visit a shop locally if you are still unsure of what you might like and ask for their advice. If you know what you want, here are some great online shops for all things erotica!
SelfandMore
Independent, woman-owned biz. Discreet shipping. Great to follow on IG too!
Lelo
More than a leading luxury pleasure brand; it’s a self-care movement that transcends gender, orientation, race, and age.
FunFactory (DE)
Sex toys made of high quality silicone – Made in Germany. Order safely & easily
OhMyFantasy
Date boxes available with diverse themes for solo and with a partner. Use my code PLEASEPINCHME!
KnkPlay.me
An adult card game for all those interested in exploring their kinks, fantasies and desires.
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