pleasepinchmehard short reads
pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.
While the subject pleasure and sex are omnipresent in my work, it takes a holistic approach to our life and personality to really work on our sexual (r)evolution. So these short reads are all those other thoughts I’m having as a woman, mother, sister, friend and lover.
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40 Strange Questions To Ask Yourself To Find Out Who You Really Are
Ever caught yourself questioning, well, yourself? Maybe it’s during a 3 a.m. existential crisis or that weirdly insightful shower moment. Asking yourself the right questions can spark self-discovery and a whole lot of “Wait, what?” moments. Buckle up—things are about to get strange!
Doms, Subs, and Brats, Oh My! A Cheeky Guide to Power Play Perfection
Curious about BDSM dynamics? Whether you’re a commanding Dom, a devoted Sub, or a mischievous Brat, this fun and insightful guide breaks down power play, tips for thriving in your role, and how to communicate like a pro—because kink is all about pleasure and consent.
Is Breaking Up Really an Asshole Move?
Breaking up isn’t inherently an asshole move—but doing it poorly is. Here’s a funny, insightful take on why honesty beats staying in a relationship out of guilt.
How to F*ck Like You Mean It: The Art of Passionate, Primal Sex
Forget choreographed, nice sex—it’s time to unleash your wild side. This guide will teach you how to f*ck with passion, intensity, and zero inhibitions. From primal eye contact to using your hands (and teeth) like you mean it, we’re diving into the art of truly losing yourself in the moment. If you’re ready for sex that feels like fire, this is your roadmap.
Scissoring 101: Tips, Tricks, and the Truth
Scissoring: the move everyone’s heard of but no one seems to really understand. Is it real? Does it work? And why does it look so easy in the movies? This playful guide dives into the mechanics, myths, and magic of scissoring—because yes, it can be a thing, but it might not look like what you think. With tips, humor, and practical advice, this article helps you figure out if this thigh-tangling move is for you—and how to make it work (or laugh trying).
Guide to Books on Sexuality
Explore our comprehensive list of books on sexuality, relationships, gender, and more. Whether you’re seeking entertainment or education, this guide has it all.
How to encourage your partner to embrace their dominant side: a playful guide
Discover how to help your partner embrace their dominant side with this playful, insightful guide. Packed with practical tips and expert advice to explore new dynamics together!
Anxious vs. Avoidant vs. Secure Attachment Styles in Relationships
Discover how anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles impact relationships. Learn key triggers, strengths, and tips for navigating love based on your unique attachment style.
Let’s get sexy back: why it’s time to stop overthinking sex and make sex fun again
Can we just take a minute to breathe and remember that sex is supposed to be fun? This article is all about letting go of the pressure, embracing playfulness, and finding simple ways to reconnect with your partner. With easy tips and a focus on lightening up, you’ll rediscover the joy of intimacy—awkward moments, laughter, and all.
A Guide to Trauma Therapy
Is your everyday life haunted by past experiences? Learn about different trauma therapy techniques like CBT, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, and Family Constellation Therapy to heal and reclaim your future.
How to Feel Sexy: Five Tricks to Help Instantly
Knowing how to feel sexy starts from within. In this article you’ll find five easy ways to give you a little boost and get that sexy mill going.
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Kink, Shibari & Core Erotic Being / Vaegabound
Ein Gespräch mit Sascha Achner über Kink, Shibari und unser Core Erotic Being mit Lisa Opel von DEEP&DIRTY (pleasepinchmehard)
Sexuality: A Guide to Professional Resources and Support
Explore comprehensive resources and professional support for sexual health and well-being. Find expert sex therapists, bodyworkers, and coaches to enhance your sexual journey.
Reclaiming Childhood: Healing from Growing Up Too Fast
Explore the journey of reclaiming and healing from a childhood marked by premature independence. This article offers personal insights and advice for those navigating the complex path of self-discovery and emotional recovery.
From “Touched Out” to “Touch Hungry”: Unraveling the Language of Touch
Craving touch, but feeling overwhelmed? Are you in a touch-tangle? Dive into the world of touch-starved confusion and discover your way to connection and comfort.
Wilde Urnatur Maya Womb Medicine
My personal insights and feelings about Maya Womb Medicine by Wilde Urnatur, collective healing, and women’s well-being. Expect some buzzwords and impulses (not solutions), not just for show, but to get you thinking about these concepts.
Fake Orgasms Are Like Shouting Wolf
Ever wondered about the real impact of faking orgasms on your relationship and yourself? Unmask the truth, ask yourself the tough questions, and rediscover the authentic magic that lies beyond the facade. It’s time for genuine connection and self-discovery.
TEDx Lisa Opel Outfit
Join me on a TEDx journey, where resilience meets style. From Marina Hoermanseder’s iconic black strap skirt to ITEM M6’s vibrant pink underwear, we unfold a narrative of empowerment and self-discovery together.
Therapist vs. Life Coach: Making the Right Choice
Wondering if you should turn to a therapist or a life coach? We’ll help you understand the distinctions, so you can make the best choice for your personal growth and well-being.
Five questions for a relationship check-in
Ready to spark up your relationship? Explore our five-question relationship check-in and uncover expert insights with playful exercises. How can you keep the flame alive in your love story?
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Marina DEVIANCE BDSM Dating App
BDSM-Online-Dating leicht gemacht! Marina von Deviance spricht über kinky Matches, Red Flags, Pet Play, Natursekt und Lisa verrät warum Voice Memos euer Sexleben bereichern können. 🔥 Jetzt reinhören!
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Leanne Yau – Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
Award-winning polyamory educator Leanne Yau joins Deep and Dirty to unpack non-monogamy myths, navigating boundaries, and the personal growth that comes with open relationships. A must-listen for anyone curious about love beyond monogamy!
Why you’re not initiating sex and how to start
Struggling to initiate sex? You’re not alone. Learn why you hesitate, how to overcome it, and easy, no-pressure ways to take the lead in the bedroom. Download our free cheat sheet!
Smart, Sexy, and Into Spanking: Why Intelligent Minds Thrive in Kink
Discover why intelligent minds thrive in BDSM! From power dynamics to pain and pleasure, explore how kink offers the ultimate psychological playground for overthinkers and deep thinkers alike.
Strap In: A Comprehensive Guide to Pegging for Couples
Pegging combines trust, curiosity, and exploration. From prostate stimulation to strap-on fun and the basics of anal play, it’s about finding what excites both of you. Take it slow, use plenty of lube, and enjoy the ride.
Ultimate guide to Womanizer: THE Clit Stimulator!
Discover the revolutionary Womanizer adult toy and its innovative Pleasure Air Technology. This comprehensive guide covers its history, benefits, myths, user tips, and how to enhance your sexual wellness and intimacy with a partner.
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