pleasepinchmehard short reads
pleasepinchmehard short reads are my random musings on all things pleasure, parenting, identity & more. Always rambly, honest, raw and vulnerable.
While the subject pleasure and sex are omnipresent in my work, it takes a holistic approach to our life and personality to really work on our sexual (r)evolution. So these short reads are all those other thoughts I’m having as a woman, mother, sister, friend and lover.
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Wer initiiert beim Sex? Wie Mental Load Lust und Nähe beeinflusst
Warum immer ich? Oder: Warum nie du? – diese Fragen höre ich in meiner Praxis ständig.
Die Frage, wer beim Sex initiiert, ist weit mehr als ein kleines Alltagsproblem. Sie berührt Rollenbilder, Macht, das Gefühl gesehen zu werden – und auch die unsichtbare Last, die viele Frauen im Alltag tragen.
Nicht wie so ein Porno! Sex ohne Scham
Was passiert, wenn wir weibliche Lust mit Porno-Klischees verwechseln – und warum das echte, selbstbestimmte Begehren dabei oft verloren geht. Ein Text über Scham, Freiheit und die Rückeroberung deiner Sexualität.
Filthy Fantasies: The Taboo Porn No One Talks About
Ever cleared your browser history and thought: what the hell is wrong with me? From step-porn to rape fantasies, daddy roleplay, humiliation, even balloons. Discover the psychology behind taboo porn, why it turns us on, and how to explore your erotic wiring without drowning in shame.
Abgewiesen im Kinky Club Hamburg: Zum ersten Mal in über 20 Jahren
Zum ersten Mal in über 20 Jahren wurden wir im Kinky Club Hamburg abgewiesen. Unsere persönliche Erfahrung mit Dresscode, Fetisch-Szene und Tipps für dich.
Reclaiming Needy Dependence as a Radical Act of Feminism
I was taught to be a strong, independent woman. Never need too much, never ask too loud. But I’m done performing strength through silence. In this piece, I reclaim emotional neediness as a form of feminist power: not a flaw, but a feature. This isn’t self-help. It’s political. It’s personal. And it’s time.
Kinky Outfit Guide – Was zieh ich an??
Umfassender Kinky Outfit Guide: Dresscodes verstehen, Looks für jede Körperform & jedes Gender, Komfort-Tipps, Pflegeroutine, Shopping-Liste, Podcast + Freebie.
Degradation Kink: Respected in Life, Degraded in Bed
Why consensual degradation play can actually boost self-esteem, deepen intimacy, and showcase your personal power.
How Voice Messages Help You Discover Your Sexual Voice
Discovering your sexual voice isn’t just about talking dirty—it’s about speaking your truth, owning your desires, and turning your voice into your most intimate pleasure tool. Whether you’re whispering fantasies to a lover or moaning sweet nothings into your own recorder, voice messages can unlock confidence, connection, and seriously hot self-awareness. Ready to moan more and text less? Let’s find the sound of your desire.
How to Be a Dominant Woman in Bed
Ready to take control in the bedroom? Learn how to Dom with style, confidence, and instant command using fun, easy-to-use role archetypes.
Messy Sex: Why I Let Him Ruin My Makeup on Purpose
Letting him ruin your makeup isn’t a mistake—it’s power, passion, and messy sex magic. Discover why getting beautifully wrecked is the new intimacy.
40 Strange Questions To Ask Yourself To Find Out Who You Really Are
Ever caught yourself questioning, well, yourself? Maybe it’s during a 3 a.m. existential crisis or that weirdly insightful shower moment. Asking yourself the right questions can spark self-discovery and a whole lot of “Wait, what?” moments. Buckle up—things are about to get strange!
Doms, Subs, and Brats, Oh My! A Cheeky Guide to Power Play Perfection
Curious about BDSM dynamics? Whether you’re a commanding Dom, a devoted Sub, or a mischievous Brat, this fun and insightful guide breaks down power play, tips for thriving in your role, and how to communicate like a pro—because kink is all about pleasure and consent.
Is Breaking Up Really an Asshole Move?
Breaking up isn’t inherently an asshole move—but doing it poorly is. Here’s a funny, insightful take on why honesty beats staying in a relationship out of guilt.
How to F*ck Like You Mean It: The Art of Passionate, Primal Sex
Forget choreographed, nice sex—it’s time to unleash your wild side. This guide will teach you how to f*ck with passion, intensity, and zero inhibitions. From primal eye contact to using your hands (and teeth) like you mean it, we’re diving into the art of truly losing yourself in the moment. If you’re ready for sex that feels like fire, this is your roadmap.
Scissoring 101: Tips, Tricks, and the Truth
Scissoring: the move everyone’s heard of but no one seems to really understand. Is it real? Does it work? And why does it look so easy in the movies? This playful guide dives into the mechanics, myths, and magic of scissoring—because yes, it can be a thing, but it might not look like what you think. With tips, humor, and practical advice, this article helps you figure out if this thigh-tangling move is for you—and how to make it work (or laugh trying).
Guide to Books on Sexuality
Explore our comprehensive list of books on sexuality, relationships, gender, and more. Whether you’re seeking entertainment or education, this guide has it all.
How to encourage your partner to embrace their dominant side: a playful guide
Discover how to help your partner embrace their dominant side with this playful, insightful guide. Packed with practical tips and expert advice to explore new dynamics together!
Anxious vs. Avoidant vs. Secure Attachment Styles in Relationships
Discover how anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles impact relationships. Learn key triggers, strengths, and tips for navigating love based on your unique attachment style.
Let’s get sexy back: why it’s time to stop overthinking sex and make sex fun again
Can we just take a minute to breathe and remember that sex is supposed to be fun? This article is all about letting go of the pressure, embracing playfulness, and finding simple ways to reconnect with your partner. With easy tips and a focus on lightening up, you’ll rediscover the joy of intimacy—awkward moments, laughter, and all.
A Guide to Trauma Therapy
Is your everyday life haunted by past experiences? Learn about different trauma therapy techniques like CBT, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, and Family Constellation Therapy to heal and reclaim your future.
Zervixlust, Traumaheilung und Nervensystem-Balance
Zervixlust, Traumaheilung, Narbenarbeit und Nervensystem-Balance. Inklusive Guide zur Selbst-Exploration und wissenschaftlichen Insights.
Why Every Couple Needs a Sex Menu for Better Intimacy
Time for a Sex Menu! Spice up your love life with a personalized pleasure roadmap that’s playful, empowering, and hotter than a jalapeño in lingerie.
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Marina DEVIANCE BDSM Dating App
BDSM-Online-Dating leicht gemacht! Marina von Deviance spricht über kinky Matches, Red Flags, Pet Play, Natursekt und Lisa verrät warum Voice Memos euer Sexleben bereichern können. ? Jetzt reinhören!
DEEP&DIRTY Podcast :: Leanne Yau – Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
Award-winning polyamory educator Leanne Yau joins Deep and Dirty to unpack non-monogamy myths, navigating boundaries, and the personal growth that comes with open relationships. A must-listen for anyone curious about love beyond monogamy!
Why you’re not initiating sex and how to start
Struggling to initiate sex? You’re not alone. Learn why you hesitate, how to overcome it, and easy, no-pressure ways to take the lead in the bedroom. Download our free cheat sheet!
Smart, Sexy, and Into Spanking: Why Intelligent Minds Thrive in Kink
Discover why intelligent minds thrive in BDSM! From power dynamics to pain and pleasure, explore how kink offers the ultimate psychological playground for overthinkers and deep thinkers alike.
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