Lisa Opel

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Saved in Notes… and never sent. by Lisa Opel is a collection of poems for the overthinkers, the overfeelers, and everyone learning how to come home to themselves.

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Alien Play in the Bedroom – Your How-To! incl. free PDF

Alien play in the bedroom isn’t just a sci-fi fantasy — it’s a wildly creative, deeply connective way to explore intimacy, curiosity, and pleasure without the usual human expectations. Whether you’re curious about gentle exploration, cheeky tentacle energy, or simply want to break out of your routine with a little extraterrestrial mischief, this guide shows you how to play safely, consensually, and joyfully. From communication tips to toys, scenes, psychology and aftercare, you’ll learn how alien role play can be inclusive, liberating, and surprisingly tender.

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Sind Orgien einfacher als Dreier?

Sind Orgien einfacher als Dreier?

Mag er sie mehr als mich? Ist der besser als ich? Wenn solche Fragen den Dreier vermiesen, kann eine Orgie überraschend befreiend sein. Eine intime, ehrliche Analyse über Sex, Konsens und Körperwahrheit.

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Schriftzug „PORN“ als visuelles Symbol für gesellschaftliche Klischees und Vorurteile über Sexualität, stellvertretend für die Abgrenzung zwischen realer Lust und medialen Darstellungen.

Nicht wie so ein Porno! Sex ohne Scham

Was passiert, wenn wir weibliche Lust mit Porno-Klischees verwechseln – und warum das echte, selbstbestimmte Begehren dabei oft verloren geht. Ein Text über Scham, Freiheit und die Rückeroberung deiner Sexualität.

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Secret Masturbation in Relationships

We all do it, but we rarely talk about it. That private orgasm behind closed doors, the quick scroll when no one’s watching, the little fantasy you’d never confess out loud. Is it hiding? Is it betrayal? Or is it simply another way of staying connected to yourself while being in a relationship?

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Filthy Fantasies: The Taboo Porn No One Talks About

Ever cleared your browser history and thought: what the hell is wrong with me? From step-porn to rape fantasies, daddy roleplay, humiliation, even balloons. Discover the psychology behind taboo porn, why it turns us on, and how to explore your erotic wiring without drowning in shame.

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WHO IS LISA OPEL?

Pleasure. Fantasies. Self-Discovery.

Lisa Opel is THE voice for female pleasure, fantasies, and sexual self-discovery. As the celebrated author of GIVE IT TO ME! (print, e-book, audiobook), speaker, and host of the Deep & Dirty podcast, she brings raw realism to erotic literature and intimate conversations. Her TEDx Talk Rediscovering Sex After a Dry Spell has made waves internationally.

Featured in COSMOPOLITAN, Spiegel, Stern, WDR, SIXX, Tagesspiegel, Eltern Magazin, Joyclub, Skirt Club, Gofeminin, and more, Lisa is breaking taboos and inspiring women everywhere to reclaim their sexuality.

Lust. Fantasie. Selbstfindung.

Lisa Opel ist DIE Stimme für weibliche Lust, Fantasien und sexuelle Selbstfindung. Als gefeierte Autorin von GIVE IT TO ME! (Print, E-Book, Hörbuch), Speakerin und Host des Podcasts Deep & Dirty bringt sie echten Realismus in erotische Literatur und intime Gespräche. Ihr TEDx Talk Rediscovering Sex After a Dry Spell hat international begeistert.

Lisa ist bekannt aus COSMOPOLITAN, Spiegel, Stern, WDR, SIXX, Tagesspiegel, Eltern Magazin, Joyclub, Skirt Club, Gofeminin und vielen mehr. Ihre Arbeit durchbricht Tabus und inspiriert Frauen weltweit, ihre Sexualität neu zu entdecken.

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