Expert, Author, Speaker
Desire needs language. And a voice that dares.
Lisa Opel writes and speaks about desire, fantasy, relationships and sexual language with humor, depth and real media presence.
Author, TEDx speaker, host of DEEP&DIRTY and a known voice on long-term relationships, bisexuality, motherhood, erotic fantasy and sexual communication. For media, productions, events, platforms and partners that want to talk about intimacy with intelligence, warmth and a grown-up tone.
Proof
Not an empty expert claim.
Lisa brings documented media experience, stage presence and a subject that is culturally, personally and socially relevant: how do adults talk about desire?
Press, TV, Podcast, Event
Features, interviews, guest appearances, readings, workshops and expert contributions in German and English.
View press archiveDesire after a dry spell
A talk about motherhood, losing desire and finding a way back into an erotic self.
Watch talkDEEP&DIRTY Podcast
A bilingual podcast on sexuality, relationships, identity and pleasure with an international audience.
Open podcastBooks
Erotic literature, practical sexuality and saved thoughts from the Notes app: direct, embodied and honest.
Visit websiteCourse & Sex Education
Online course and workshop experience around long-term relationships, desire, language and sex education.
View courseNDR, WDR, WDR 2, SIXX
A media-ready expert voice for personal, cultural and pop-cultural sexuality topics.
View TV & mediaPositioning
The expert for desire, fantasy and sexual language.
Not "here is a sex toy, buy this." Instead: what happens in the mind, in the body, in relationships, in fantasies, in messages, in long-term partnerships, after children, in coming out, in shame and in language?
- Sexual communication
- Fantasies & inner cinema
- Long-term relationships
- Sex after children
- Bisexuality
- Queer visibility
- Dark Romance & BookTok
- Kink, consent & language
- Erotic literature
- Sexual wellness
- Shame-free conversations
- Erotic storytelling
Where Lisa Works
Online, on stage, on camera and on the page.
Lisa translates intimate topics into very different rooms: journalistic, performative, educational, entertaining, literary or advisory. Always clear, shame-free and aware of when a topic needs humor and when it needs care.
Livestreams, talks, community formats
Live conversations, Q&As, digital salons, expert rounds and moderated sessions on desire, language, fantasy and relationships.
Talks, panels, readings
Stage appearances, conversations, readings and performative formats that make erotic and intimate topics accessible.
Language, shame, fantasy
Sessions for audiences, teams, editorial rooms or communities: practical, sensitive, direct and never stiff.
Moderation & conversation
Warm, quick, open and precise: for conversations that may become personal without losing their shape.
Essays, columns, audio, fiction
German and English: erotic short texts, essays, audio scripts, columns, editorials and language concepts.
TV, video, podcast, interviews
An expert voice for formats that want to frame intimacy, dating, relationships, bodies and sexuality in a human way.
Formats
What is possible with Lisa.
A collaboration can be short, focused or built as a dedicated format. What matters is the right room: a good question, a brave topic and an audience that wants to be addressed as adults.
Expert statement
Pointed perspective for press, audio, video, editorial work, trend topics or cultural commentary.
Talk / keynote
A clear stage moment on desire, language, fantasy, relationships, motherhood, bisexuality or sexual shame.
Workshop / masterclass
Interactive sessions on sexual communication, fantasy, dirty talk, consent, long-term relationships or creative erotica.
Moderation / hosting
Conversations, panels, live podcasts, video formats or series that need an open, funny and emotionally safe voice.
Reading / performance
Erotic literature, personal texts, conversation and humor as an intimate evening or part of a wider program.
Text / audio / concept
Essays, columns, short stories, audio scripts, conversation concepts and language development for intimate topics.
All formats are possible in German or English, online or in person, as a single appearance, series, workshop, reading, livestream, interview, panel or editorial collaboration.
Working Style
Open enough for intimate topics. Clear enough for a broad audience.
Lisa combines personal warmth with editorial sharpness, literary language and stage energy. She can explain, ask, read, moderate, sharpen and hold a room.
She speaks about sexuality without falling into cliches: neither clinical nor flat, neither moralizing nor careless.
Present live, quick in contact, funny without shame and still attentive to the boundaries in the room.
She finds words for things many people feel but cannot say: desire, ambiguity, shame, fantasy and closeness.
Contact
For media, stages, productions, platforms and partners.
Requests for interviews, expert statements, talks, workshops, livestreams, panels, readings, moderation, audio, TV, video and editorial collaboration.