How to feel good enough.

Blog Post - How to be good enough

Self-love, self-confidence and self-worth:
These words and concepts all start with the word self. Remember that. You are wanting to be good enough for yourself. And what that means, is up to you. Not what it means to Susan or Karen, only you.

Free romantic gifts that keep on giving!

This Christmas, let's slow down. We want magic! Here are some free romantic gift ideas for couples

Especially for you, here are not only free romantic gift ideas for your partner but also ideas to keep things hot and loving during the season and on top: how to stay connected to yourself when things get a little too much.

Libido in longterm relationships – Why do couples stop having sex?

Loss of libido in longterm relationships can be unnerving, frustrating and sad. Here is a comprehensive guide to reigniting that fire!

Around 30 percent of all women between the ages of 18 and 59 show a lack of interest in sexual activities. The truth about libido in longterm relationships is that there is no normal. This blog post gives you a broad overview on how to cultivate a healthy sexual relationship with your partner.

Unlock your anal sex potential now!

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A comprehensive guide about anal sex: rimming, fingering, hygiene (the poop bit), toys, pegging, penetration and some busted myths and misconceptions. Dive on in! Use the table of contents if you’re looking for something specific.

Easy tips for fantastic oral sex

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Cunnilingus: it has a bit of a marmite status, either you love it or you hate it. What is wonderful about cunnilingus is it gives you an opportunity to get up close and personal with your partner’s hoo-ha. So take the time, use some lube, spread the lips and explore.

How to talk dirty without embarrassing yourself

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Dirty talk has a bad reputation nowadays with the p*rn industry quick to have us believe it’s all about hardcore slang and derogatory terms. But, if done respectfully and with mutual consent (and a pinch of humor and modesty) it can really spice things up and get you out of your head.

WORLD WOMEN’S DAY :: 8th of MARCH

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Let’s use our words, the infinite resource of mental strength, to help the women in our lives navigate this minefield of a contradictory image of a woman. For while we are torn apart in all the things we “should” be, we are also the most resilient folk I have ever experienced. And the fact that we can be all these things at once means we should see the chains of society as something we own and master as opposed to holding us back.

How to lift your lockdown libido

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Your libido is not something set apart from you. What I mean is you can’t work on your libido without first looking at many other factors. You as a person need to be in a good place in order to ignite that spark. The following is a pot-pourri of ideas you can pick-n-mix from in finding what’s right for you.

LIBIDO OF A MOTHER & WIFE IN A PANDEMIC

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LOCKDOWN LOVE is hard.
LOCKDOWN LOVE is testing.
LOCKDOWN LOVE brings out the worst in me.
LOCKDOWN LOVE means sex has been off the cards for, brace yourselves, months. Why? Because:
I am tired.
I am emotionally drained.
I am not challenged mentally anymore.