What Do I Wear? Festival Edition

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Create a festival outfit that feels like you. Mix characters, colours and accessories, plan a £0–£250 budget, check comfort and download your personalised worksheet.

Franklin Veaux’s Map of Human Sexuality: A Guide to Desire

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Franklin Veaux’s Map of Human Sexuality turns desire into a playful landscape of curiosity, fantasy, consent and conversation. Here’s how to use it as a sex-positive tool for exploring what you like, what stays fantasy-only, and how to talk about it without shame.

Stealthing: When consent quietly gets broken

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Stealthing, the non-consensual removal of a condom during sex, is a growing concern that challenges how we understand consent, trust, and sexual boundaries. While it often happens quietly, its impact can be significant, affecting both physical safety and emotional wellbeing. This article explains what stealthing is, why it matters, and what you can do if it happens to you, with clear insights, real context, and practical guidance.

Audio Meditation, But Make It Hot: xounds Guided Body Journey by Lisa!

Promotional image for Xounds featuring Lisa Opel and her audio piece Lisa Says: A Guided Body Journey of a Different Kind. The graphic combines bold Xounds branding with a playful, confident portrait of Lisa, highlighting the mix of humour, intimacy, and sound-led body awareness that defines the audio experience.

For anyone who’s ever wanted a body check-in without spiritual fluff, this article & audio dives into audio meditation, pleasure, and sound-led awareness. Equal parts educational and playful, with insights into why Xounds feels like the right place for this new kind of listening.

Alien Play in the Bedroom – Your How-To! incl. free PDF

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Alien play in the bedroom isn’t just a sci-fi fantasy — it’s a wildly creative, deeply connective way to explore intimacy, curiosity, and pleasure without the usual human expectations. Whether you’re curious about gentle exploration, cheeky tentacle energy, or simply want to break out of your routine with a little extraterrestrial mischief, this guide shows you how to play safely, consensually, and joyfully. From communication tips to toys, scenes, psychology and aftercare, you’ll learn how alien role play can be inclusive, liberating, and surprisingly tender.

Brauch ich einen Sex Therapeuten?

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NEUE PODCAST FOLGE: Brauch ich einen Sex Therapeuten? Wann ist Therapie sinnvoll, welche Alternativen es gibt und welche Fragen dir wirklich weiterhelfen.